Dealing with Swinging and Wife Swapping Jealousy

    Jealousy can arise whether you are new to swinging or have been in the lifestyle for awhile. Don’t underestimate the power of jealousy, it often comes up when one person gets or receives more attention than the other in the relationship whether it’s at a party or in a more private setting feelings of insecurity can come up. No one should feel left out. A great way to avoid or prevent jealousy is having some simple rules like:

1.    Only playing together. Same room play no separate rooms

2.    Communicate between each other. Both people make the discussion to play

3.    Have a safe word. A word that lets the other know they aren’t comfortable.

4.    Listen to each other. If something comes up address it even if it means stopping any sexual activity happening.

5.    Any agreements or rule you make Stick to them.

6.    Be reassuring of the commitment and your love for each other.

Remember, wife swapping, friends with benefits, swinging or the Swinglifestyle no matter what you call it; it is for both of you to enjoy.  If at any time jealousy becomes an issue for you and your partner, take time out… work it out together.